Monday, April 16, 2007

Better, Richer, Happier













Do you think your life could be better, richer, happier? I know that your life can be better, richer, and happier. I also know that you can make this happen.

I also know that the way this will happen is:

  • Wish, Hope

  • Thought

  • Idea

  • Plan

  • Action





Is this a straight path? No. Is this a path? Yes.





You have a wish and hope. You may label this as a daydream. You experience this and at some point you make a judgement about it. Your judgement may be that this wish, hope is not possible. That is it for you. That is the end for you.





Suppose you do not take that path. Instead you have a thought about this wish, hope. You begin to think that this wish, hope could happen. Now you have the thought. You are thinking about this wish and hope with confidence and ability. You have not made a judgement. You are open to this wish, hope happening.





Next comes an idea. After thinking you develop an idea, a way to make this wish, hope happen. Things are rolling along for you now. This wish, hope is possible and there is the idea that it can happen. It can happen with a plan.





Now you are creating the plan. This may take some research and consulting. Or it may just pop into your head. However, it comes about it is solidifying.





Lastly comes the action you need to take to make the wish, hope a reality.





Can it be that simple? Yes. There may be gaps and stops between each step. You may falter and get lost at any step. This is where the path is not a straight line. But do you really care what the path is as long as you ge there? Are you obsessed with the path and not the destination? Is this where you get lost?





Is there where you make the judgement that this wish, hope is not possible? Is this the end for you?





Wherever you are on the path you can do it. When you need help get it. Stay on the path. Void the judgement.





Help is here.





Marcia, Your Confidence Coach

2 comments:

Philip said...

Thanks for your comment on my website - some great stuff on this site but always worry about the word 'richer' - it can be open to different interpretations - and certainly all the evidence shows that once you reach a certain point financially to be richer brings no benefits - to use 'richer' in its broadest sense is a different matter.

Marcia, Your Confidence Coach said...

thank you phillip. i meant the term "richer" to mean deeper, more expansive. i was not talking about money. clarity in writing is a challenge even for the well seasoned writer.

readers i hope this clears up the word "richer" for you.